Hi everyone,
As we welcome the long summer evenings, it is an ideal time for some personal reflection.
The source is most conflict is enmeshment.
90% of human behaviour is unconscious and progress can only occur when we have conscious conversations. When you’re insecure difference becomes a major source of threat. If you are in a secure place, difference becomes a source of creativity.
We unconsciously avoid dialogue with ourselves, the only person present in all the scenes of our story. If I am in conflict with another, I need to have a conversation with myself. Start the dialogue with yourself first before you dialogue with another.
The most important issue is realisation not personalization.
If something scares me out there, then there is something that I need to look at in here.
‘I am ill because of wounds to the soul, to the deep emotional self. The source of disease is dis-ease.
The hurt happened in relationships and the healing of the deeper issues needs to be resolved in relationship.
How does that shift occur, the answer is SAFETY.
UNCONSCIOUS LOVE means you hide your presence.
CONSCIOUS LOVE means you manifest your presence.
I hope you can join me at FLOURISH to explore this topic in the sanctuary that is Flourish.
Warmest wishes,
Siobhan 